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Play: How Kids Learn

Play: How Kids Learn

Posted on May 1, 2018October 23, 2018 by Lisa

Play: Why Recess Isn’t Enough

Free play is extremely important to child development – probably one of the main things that children never get enough of. I saw this constantly as an elementary school teacher. I taught in a very structured program where children only had 20 minutes for recess, and the rest of the day consisted of activities run by adults. As a consequence, the children had very little time for free play. And even that little bit was under threat.

Why? Because of what happens when children get too little time for unstructured play. If they’ve been cooped up all day constantly listening to directions from others, when they finally do get a chance to play, it can look wild and unfocused. They start running, whooping loudly, spinning in circles, even banging into walls or collapsing onto the floor. (Supervising recess was never my favorite part of the day!)

As they get tired, nerves fray. Kids start arguing. There might even be tears. The teacher (in this case, me) looks at the clock and thinks, “Oh no. I’ve got to get them back inside and refocused in time for writing groups. I can’t have tears and drama. And I don’t want another phone call from So-and-so’s mom because he had a problem on the playground!”

So it’s tempting to think, “This isn’t working. They can’t handle it. Let’s do a structured game instead.”

Play: How Kids Learn

One School’s Attempt to Micromanage Play

This actually happened at my school. At orientation one year, before the school session began, we were informed that we should be actively facilitating kids’ activities. It was unacceptable that we were leaving kids to “run wild” when it was clear that their socialization required much more active adult control. We were to organize the games for them, copying what they were being taught in P.E. class.

We spent an hour of staff development time learning the games following the exact rules that the P.E. teachers put forth so that we would be sure to get it “right”. Instead of using that hour to contribute meaningfully to policy discussions, discuss curriculum, or set up our classrooms, we played the games in the gym so that we could be prepared to supervise recess properly.

This effort didn’t last. It couldn’t. After a full morning of teaching, neither teachers nor kids were prepared for another structured activity. Kids had been waiting all day to have a few minutes’ unsupervised conversation with their friends, or get all their energy out by running around “aimlessly”. Teachers who had been “on” all day didn’t want to spend a stressful 20 minutes trying to corral students into Red Rover, Red Rover. 

Everyone’s brains needed a break.

Play is More Than Structured Games

Don’t get me wrong – structured games have their place. My son and I play board games with rules, and it’s great for him to learn about taking turns and fairness. But many times, structured “play” activities at school are all about following directions and managing frustration or disappointment, and it can start to feel like just another teacher-led class rather than true playtime. And neither teacher nor student wants that.

Play is creative. Play is open ended. Play is about expanding a situation in different directions and, like theater improv, saying “yes” to whatever presents itself and going with it.

Play can be solitary OR collaborative, or a bit of both. And it can actually be harder than just following the rules of a structured activity or game.

When children play, they start from scratch. They invent the parameters and the rules that are to be followed, broken and rewritten as the players desire. They work out what’s fair, what’s permissible, and where the limits are. By doing so, they answer questions that an adult might not even think to ask.

Play: How Kids Learn

But They’re “Just” Playing…

At times, play can seem repetitive or pointless – and that’s OK too. The freedom to engage in an activity that “goes nowhere” and accomplishes nothing is part of what makes play possible. When we put on the pressure to make it all “mean something”, it can’t unfold naturally.

Playing is much like creating art, or writing a first draft. Expecting it to be perfect and meaningful from the start is a recipe for feeling blocked, stilted, and uncreative. There’s no room for the magic to unfold, for spontaneity, for unexpected insights. Interrupting the flow of play is like knocking on an artist’s studio door whining, “Isn’t your sculpture finished yet??”

Saying kids are “just” playing is judgmental, not to mention silly. We don’t say they’re “just” reading or “just” learning science. We know that reading and science are important. But playing is important too – and they can’t do reading or science well without it.

Adults Can Play, Too

Don’t neglect play for yourself just because you’re an adult! Here are 9 TED talks about the benefits of play, including for grown ups!: https://www.ted.com/playlists/383/the_importance_of_play

What was your favorite way to play growing up? What play experiences do you want your own children to have? Leave a comment below!

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